Enjoying sex was so hard when it seemed like a chore, just something else I had to do to please my spouse. The more irritable she was about our sex life, the less fun the sex was, and the more I avoided sex. By the time we came to see Dr. Modjoros, we were basically roommates. I wanted to fix my “low libido” but I didn’t know how. In therapy we figured it out. We learned how to be with each other without putting pressure on the other. That’s what I needed! I really enjoy our sex now because it is fun and enjoyable, and not work.
